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If you loved me, you would do something around here.” For them, actions truly speak louder than words.

Where there is communication, there are usually many chances to find common ground.

This week we’re looking at “acts of service” – doing something for your spouse that you know they would like for you to do.

Cooking a meal, washing dishes, taking out the garbage, mowing the lawn, changing the baby’s diaper, and painting the bedroom, etc.

“If you were a good spouse, you would do this for me” is not the language of love.

“You will do this, or you’ll be sorry” is manipulation, not love.

They are trying to tell you what is important to them emotionally. When I talk about acts of service as an expression of love, I am not talking about being a slave.

When we treat our spouses as slaves, we remove the possibility of love because we remove their freedom.

If acts of service are to be acts of love, they must be freely given. Learning a new language may be difficult and take time, but it can be done.