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When your kids aren’t sure of how to self-identify. Children go through stages of self-identifying white or Asian," says Reddit user unreplicate. One kid is obviously of ambiguous ethnic heritage and the other is blond hair and blue-eyed ...

If your dating pool feels too small, it’s time to widen it.

The fastest way to do that is by meeting people of different backgrounds.

"Usually only happens if we are just standing next to each other and not really talking.

If we are talking, they assume we work together." 8.

When you’re surprised by who accepts you as a couple and who doesn’t.

A white woman married to a South-Asian woman, Reddit user breakingupishard22, says, "The only thing that’s ever stood out to me is that people are always surprised that her Muslim parents are cooler with us than my white atheist parents.

He also added, "I was stopped by the police before and the cop actually pulled me out of the car and asked me if she was a prostitute and would not believe me until I showed our wedding photo that’s in my wallet." 12.

When you learn that your relationship is so much more than what anyone else thinks.

One white man with a Hindu wife explains that "there’s a word in Tamil [her language] that literally translates to ’useless,’ but the Tamil word is often used colloquially to mean something closer to ’not currently needed,’" says Reddit user YWAK98alum.

"But that doesn’t stop my wife from describing all kinds of people (including me, frequently) as straight-up ’useless,’ including to their faces, and then wondering why these people either get angry or just avoid her." 4.

When it comes to interracial dating, the people who’ve been there will tell you there can definitely be struggles.