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As cliché as it sounds, being yourself is probably best first date advice.

It’ll only look strange if you tell them all that you’re already seated and waiting to order. If your date asks what you’d like to eat, drink, or share for dessert, don’t say “I don’t care, what do you want? Obviously, you want to look your best, but a first date isn’t the time to take those new stilettos out for a road test, or wear that dress that’s a little tight. Because first dates are anxiety-filled enough and being uncomfortable in your clothes only makes it worse.

Plus, won’t it suck to not be able to walk a few blocks on a nice night because your heels are too high? There’s not much to say here without sounding like a preachy parent, but keep this in mind: Having to be carried home by someone you barely know isn’t fun (nor is slurring your words or crying at the dinner table).

There’s nothing more rude than trying to have a conversation with a person who’s constantly stating at a screen.

Checking Instagram can wait—and definitely don’t post any status updates, tweets about your date in real-time, or snap any candid pics when they’re not looking. A foolproof way to ensure that conversation will always be flowing is to simply ask questions.

No matter how shitty of a day you had at work, or whether the restaurant you’re at has terrible service, or the movie you saw is total crap—try your best to stay positive when getting to know someone.

It’ll alleviate any anxiety he’s having about whether he’s showing you a good time, and it’ll just make you more fun to be around, pure and simple.

When they recorded “Somebody to Love” Jefferson Airplane made famous the sentiment that we all want someone to love: Don’t you want somebody to love Don’t you need somebody to love Wouldn’t you love somebody to love You better find somebody to love.

For many, loving someone is as important, if not more so, than having someone love them.

If you had a wonderful time and feel like shooting your date a casual text later that night or the next day, go for it.

Just maybe don’t stalk and accidentally like their Instagram photos—or worse, their ex’s Instagram photos.

He said, “I just didn’t feel it was right to go ahead with my real name at first.” Didn’t he realize everyone he contacted would see his name was listed as Micheal? Not that I look anything like her nor do I share her movie-star lifestyle.